Serious question - is this something that Mom’s do with their 2+ year old child? Front packs existed when I had kids, although they didn’t fit bigger babies/children. I just carried my kids on my hip!
Serious question - is this something that Mom’s do with their 2+ year old child? Front packs existed when I had kids, although they didn’t fit bigger babies/children. I just carried my kids on my hip!
You can still carry in the front well into toddler good. There are preschooler carriers for kids with disabilities. I carried my 3.5 yo front once or twice because she really insisted to (was tired, needed a nap) 🤷♀️
I regularly put my 2yo in the carrier but always on my back. It would be so awkward and uncomfortable to have a 2yo on the front, imagine wearing a huge heavy backpack on the front instead of the back. Makes no sense.
She is a Psycho!!! that carrier only for infants up to 16 pds & she had to put him in carseat in car waiting out front. The restraint & his ability to properly breathe was hinder & why he was crying. You are correct ANOTHER STORY!
That poor boy is absolutely miserable. Probably too tight on his little legs. His face is bright red so crying for a bit. Put that boy in a stroller and put down the freaking camera!
He's sad because he's so big for that carrier now that his head is constantly yanked back at a painfully sharp angle and he's too big to breathe in it properly, not because he can't go five minutes without the company of his fake twin that you almost borderline incestuously fetishise him with you weird creep.
I used a carrier for my 2 year old but on my back for hiking. Front carrying would strain your back in my opinion but like others pointed out it’s the selfie with a screaming toddler that’s not normal.
She's got him in an infant carrier and they definitely make toddler ones. I have a toddler one and it's a million times more comfortable for both of us
all the nyc moms i know have their nanny take the kids to appointments, and we just walk, even in the rain. raincoats with hoods and umbrellas are shockingly water-resistant
This is a clear snapshot. He shouldn’t be, at his age, locked into a high chair or strapped into an infant carrier. He should be learning to eat with plates and utensils at a table. He should be walking or in an age appropriate stroller if he’s under the weather. This shows you in one or two quick pictures that she doesn’t understand early childhood development. When she’s around then she straps them down because they’re contained and it’s easier.
Mom of three. The first thing that strikes me about this is a kid who is feeling unwell and in distress and she’s prioritizing a picture in the hallway mirror. As opposed to focusing on comforting him and just getting him to a doctor. That and this pic is all you need to understand where her priorities lie.
You “bolted” there yet stopped to document it and wrote a paragraph? That is about as believable as them being twins you kook. Attend to your crying, sick child and get off the internet!!!
I did this with my son a few times, mainly when he was sick or when I had to be really quick grabbing something from the store and didn't want a two year old making a ten minute dash turn into half an hour. But my son has always been on the small side for his age. Poor Edu, he looks so unhappy! Weird pic to post
"Look at how big he is" translates in her mind to "Look at how big my two year old is!! He's HALF my size, which mecks me vrry, vrry, tiny! See how tiny I am? Vrrry smol and tiny. Yep, I am smol. Oh, and yeh, he sick."
Checked out for what why half post shit i don't get it either tells us a reason or don't post cryptic shit also why is an nr preschooler in a baby sling thing I've never seen a two yr old plus in a swing seat back pack I've seen dads or mums or both carry them atop there shoulders holding their hands I've seen them walking yes a bit slow but besides an adult holding a pram or parents hand but never this but again been a long time since I've been round small kids maybe things are done very differently now
There are ergonomic baby carriers suited for toddlers and pre schoolers, so too carry two year olds are thing. There are so much better brands then “baby björn” that isn’t so heavy to carry in.
She’s full of shit. He’s not ‘thinking’ anything. He’s not missing his ‘twin’ and this supposed ‘inseparable-ness-is the result of their mother refusing to see each of her children as separate human beings. This kid and the one she bought to go with him have been part of a weird pathology-a fantastical universe their mother has concocted in her mind.
It’s so weird how she tries to use the fact that he’s miserable at being in that thing or maybe sick and needing attention, as fodder for how ‘inseparable’ the siblings are. I expect it at this point, but still.
WTF?! No. It is not. (It’s not common for any mom to shove a child of this size into what is an infant/too small baby wearing device. Poor kid is smushed.)
This is also a the woman who swore he was blessing his holy water in the high chair when really he was flipping the fuck out because he was in super restraints eating yogurt melts in a spill free cup. For Christ’s sake.
My daughter is 4 and I front carry her every now and then, especially living in Chicago. So much easier than dragging the stupid stroller everywhere when going somewhere crowded. There are definitely carriers made for older toddlers and preschoolers.
He's so sick, it's NYC, it's raining, so you just have him there in the open while you "bolt" to the doctor. I'm more than positive they have nice cars and people to drive them.
I have a hip (side) carrier for my 2.5 year old. He’s heavy and I still use it when I’m going to be carrying him for awhile like across a big parking lot or something … but I’ve used it with him since he was small so he doesn’t freak out or get scared about it. It holds him on my hip just like I do when I pick him up anyways . Poor Eddie!!
Mum of three and it’s a massive NO from me. My youngest was a big boy and I think I did well to still carry him in the pack when he got to 10 months! She’s so fucking weird! Big Ed looks so upset. WHY upset him like this?
I mean he smokes cigars, has a favorite whisky, and frequents gentlemen's clubs, but the whole one foot in front of the other thing can be a challenge to all of us sometimes 😔
I have a big toddler so I’d definitely have to get a toddler carrier to be able to do that and she is not about that life, she barely tolerated it as a 1yo.
My kid still loves the backpack at nearly 4. But it’s a HBC toddler carrier designed for bigger kid. And it’s her choice to ride in it. This kid looks miserable and I HATE when parents take pics of crying kids.
Why tf is she putting him in a “front pack” at his age & size? Just carry him, dummy! U know it’s just in your bldg & into an office w ur drivers and car seats in between. What a moron! Like u need a “carrier” down an elevator????!!!!!!! Carry m-walk combo works w a kid this big. Carriers are for babies!!!!!!!!!!
It’s not odd to do this, in general. Though I don’t think they do this often enough for the kid to be comfortable. I would back carry the kid in carrier with more structure.
I would never post a pic of my kid on social having a meltdown. It’s online forever! Do you think he wants it there when he sees it as a teen? Get over yourself, you stupid woman.
Are they even verbal? I’ve never heard them say actual words in videos. I’m sure Edu was like “mother, may we perhaps invite my sister to join us on this fine excursion?”.
Sorry, no, NYC moms don’t do this. It’s either you walk or you get pushed in a stroller if you’re 2. Also “they’re inseparable”….sure. Glad ML got a break from getting beat down by her brother who is NOT her twin.
Exactly. I use a baby carrier a lot but that's because I'm a chair user and it's the best option for our family. Baby is always in the carrier and will be until he's 18mnth maybe 2 as he's small The two and half yr old rides on my lap but is encouraged to walk and uses child safety reigns when with me. A push chair/buggy when with his parents or grandparents. (My nephew's but I have them a few sessions a week and any days they can't be in nursery at their hooked time) the only carriers I've seen used for toddlers this age are for hiking
There's better carriers for an older toddler. He should be on a side bump or proper back carrier now for his own comfort and health and the parents spinal health
This woman is psychotic, delusional and a compulsive liar. That child obviously doesn’t like being in that thing and I highly doubt he began to like it. She seems to enjoy keeping him specifically contained / restrained and distressed. And I don’t believe Edu and ML are inseparable. Just more lies from this lunatic fraud.
i HATE this photo bc poor baby edu looks so sad but it’s actually totally normal to babywear an older child! most slings and carriers are safe for up to 40lbs (including the specific brand/style of the one she’s wearing). it’s kind of like extended breastfeeding - some moms/toddlers love it and do it, some moms/toddlers hate it and don’t. either is okay!!! it is also great for neurodivergent and anxious children ☺️
She's doing it lately because ILARIA'S name looks like LLARIA (Ilaria) if it's in lower case. So she will forevermore have to write every single thing in caps, especially Ilaria's name.
Baby wearing is a huge thing and yes people do it with older toddlers, however I would say that they mainly use wraps and back carry them. Not at all what she is using now.
I never took my phone out when my toddlers were upset, let alone post their pictures for the world to see. And she uses the word "like" as if a teenager.
I don't know what enjoyment she gets from displaying her child in distress and PROUD OF IT on SM and what kind of people out there enjoying seeing a crying/distressed toddler.
I’ve honestly never seen anything so pathetic in my life as her posts. Why does she continue to humiliate her children posting pics of them in distress? This will embarrass them someday. I hate her.
No, but if you were to do something attention seeking like this, you would face them out. Inward facing is only for infants with no head control. Also…I would never take a picture, and if I felt the need to, I would never be the asshole to post my kid in distress like this.
That toddler is puce from screaming. I’ll never not be uncomfortable at seeing mothers take photos of their crying children. It just seems so heartless, especially when she’s there with her stony Botox face and devoid of any emotion other than pure smugness.
I don't think it's that odd to do. I did wear my son until he was 18m and I only stopped then because I was 4-5 months pregnant. And I am a similar size to Hillz, and my son was huge. But at that point I wore him outward facing. And he was not screaming and visibly unhappy like Ed. In fact, the main reason I continued to wear him into toddlerhood is because he loved it. I wouldn't force that on a child. Clearly Ed is not used to her.
Oh Jesus NO. My grandbaby is 2 days younger than Big Ed, and she’s 37lbs. I honestly just sit down to lift her anymore because my shoulder and tennis elbow give me the finger. Plus she’s about 37” tall (I call her The Square One because of her dimensions), so just her legs would be a pain in the ass - not to mention it being uncomfortable for HER. Absolutely not.
Yeah no. To each their own of course, but I did not strap my over 2 year old child to the front of my body like that if we went out for a walk anywhere.
The whole « NYC mom » thing is so dumb. We know she’s the kind that has a driver and someone to hold the umbrella. After the picture she put him down and the nanny took him to his appointment. She went back to her BFF Vicodin.
Generally you stick them on your back. I used to carry mine until they were about 3 on my back when we were doing long walks and their little legs couldn’t keep up.
Yeah I carried on my back from about a year to 3yrs. By then they're so heavy that you can't front carry anymore. This picture is insane. She's destroying her lumbar region for weird fetish clout.
There is no way this toddler cares that his fake twin isn’t with him. At this age their primary attachment is to their caregivers, not a baby who isn’t even at the same developmental stage as he is. Imposing this contrived bond on them will only make them co-dependent later on.
I have real twins, and they didn’t care about their twin being there until they were about 4 or 5 maybe (because they became very adventurous together).
I can’t imagine taking a dead-eyed selfie while there’s a child in distress strapped to my chest. Especially one who is way too big for a carrier. That’s like…sociopath shit.
I carried my 4yo in a Tula this weekend at a very very crowded event. I had my almost 2yo in a carrier doing errands today bc I didn’t want her touching everything. I think it’s normal 🤷🏻♀️
She's pushing the "twins to their core" narrative rilly hard. He's crying because A) he's actually sick or B) he's uncomfortable in that front pack or C) He doesn't want to be literal face to face with this psycho woman!
NYC Mom Style. Puh-lease, right after you got your Pic, lost Boy Edu got handed straight back to his Nanny! He doesn't cry because you didn't took his non-Twin Sister, he's crying because he doesn't want to be infantalized! First the high Chair and now this! Stop it!!!!!! Always posting your Toddlers crying, bawling, screaming...STOP!!!!!!!!!!
No they don't. Its super weird. They do a combination of walking+stroller. She sems to enjoy infantalizing them. At the very least he should be strapped to her back.
Nooooo Hillary…he’s just getting the updraft from those stanky black leggings you’ve been wearing for over a month. Who can blame the poor little dude? 🤢
He’s probably getting pinched & squeezed in places that hurt you stupid moron! That might be why he’s crying! The first thing you do as a mom, as a (human!!!) if your child is crying is to figure out why they’re crying, are they hurt, what is wrong? That face says more than I miss my not-twin.
Personally I no longer carry my little one this way, but depending on the height and weight limits it might be ok. I have an extremely tall baby.
You can still carry in the front well into toddler good. There are preschooler carriers for kids with disabilities. I carried my 3.5 yo front once or twice because she really insisted to (was tired, needed a nap) 🤷♀️
I regularly put my 2yo in the carrier but always on my back. It would be so awkward and uncomfortable to have a 2yo on the front, imagine wearing a huge heavy backpack on the front instead of the back. Makes no sense.
Can you imagine the cluster it must have been to get a sick, crying 2 year old in that baby carrier??? Just for the ‘gram…
I wore my kids as toddlers 🤷🏻♀️ strollers aren’t convenient imo, they either walked or I carried them in a sling because it was easier on my arms.
She isnt a New Yorker, no matter how much she pushes that narrative, like her being from Spain. She cant stop with the delusions.
Another story; he was sad because he wanted to be with his sister.
She is a Psycho!!! that carrier only for infants up to 16 pds & she had to put him in carseat in car waiting out front. The restraint & his ability to properly breathe was hinder & why he was crying. You are correct ANOTHER STORY!
They do make toddler sized but that doesn’t look like one. The back is super low. But it’s just crass to post crying and sick pic.
Yeah, this picture hurts my back just looking at it.
He's miserable and she's taking the extra time to snap a pic? Can she ever miss an opportunity for attention????
That poor boy is absolutely miserable. Probably too tight on his little legs. His face is bright red so crying for a bit. Put that boy in a stroller and put down the freaking camera!
The fucking shiny leggings again
Why not just put him in a stroller?
Right ?
Yep. I do this with my grand baby. I use a moby though.
He's sad because he's so big for that carrier now that his head is constantly yanked back at a painfully sharp angle and he's too big to breathe in it properly, not because he can't go five minutes without the company of his fake twin that you almost borderline incestuously fetishise him with you weird creep.
I used a carrier for my 2 year old but on my back for hiking. Front carrying would strain your back in my opinion but like others pointed out it’s the selfie with a screaming toddler that’s not normal.
WHY is she taking a photo?????
WTH. She is so horrible.
No & it’s also not normal to take a picture (or even WANT TO) take a picture when your kid is crying like that.
Has she taken the time to badly photoshop her leg? It looks like there’s a chunk out of it.
To just bolt there …stops for selfie
She's got him in an infant carrier and they definitely make toddler ones. I have a toddler one and it's a million times more comfortable for both of us
He was passed to a nanny immediately after this picture was taken.
he is crying because he is probably uncomfortable in that damn carrier, this just proves she is not really involved with her children 👎🏾
I HATE HER
She feeds off her kids distress
Yes this is what narcs do, they actually like seeing their kids suffer. It’s so depraved, most of us can’t even wrap our minds around it
I used a sling with my two year olds, and even some of when they were three.
She really has a cruel evil side too her.
She does, she has this dark energy emanating from her and looks unfazed while her poor kid is in distress, wtf
It’s not that he’s in the pack. That’s fine. It’s that he’s sick and distressed and we are stopping for a photo op.
Probably sad cause he’s too freaking big for it
all the nyc moms i know have their nanny take the kids to appointments, and we just walk, even in the rain. raincoats with hoods and umbrellas are shockingly water-resistant
What a bitch. Kid is unwell and super distraught—perfect time to take a sELfiE! 🤳
Packs are fine. I’ve used them on my two year old.
Everything about this is for SM content and credit. Not true.
Let me share this picture of my child in distress. Isn’t it so cute and funny? ✨
Who allows their child to scream in obvious discomfort while taking a photo instead of stopping and comforting them?
Or just moving along to the doctor.
This is a clear snapshot. He shouldn’t be, at his age, locked into a high chair or strapped into an infant carrier. He should be learning to eat with plates and utensils at a table. He should be walking or in an age appropriate stroller if he’s under the weather. This shows you in one or two quick pictures that she doesn’t understand early childhood development. When she’s around then she straps them down because they’re contained and it’s easier.
My heart dropped to my stomach reading the second to last line 😳🥊 crazy levels of abuse going on in that home.
I can't wait until she has to live in Vermont!!! The New York City flex can FINALLY come to an end.
Bad Mom award goes to…
Mom of three. The first thing that strikes me about this is a kid who is feeling unwell and in distress and she’s prioritizing a picture in the hallway mirror. As opposed to focusing on comforting him and just getting him to a doctor. That and this pic is all you need to understand where her priorities lie.
perfect post. i felt sick in my stomach when i saw this photo. everything you said i agree with.
A narcissistic tyrant she is! ✔️ ✔️ ✔️
You “bolted” there yet stopped to document it and wrote a paragraph? That is about as believable as them being twins you kook. Attend to your crying, sick child and get off the internet!!!
I did this with my son a few times, mainly when he was sick or when I had to be really quick grabbing something from the store and didn't want a two year old making a ten minute dash turn into half an hour. But my son has always been on the small side for his age. Poor Edu, he looks so unhappy! Weird pic to post
Uggs and rain, name a better combo
He looks more like a Johnny than an Edu.
"Look at how big he is" translates in her mind to "Look at how big my two year old is!! He's HALF my size, which mecks me vrry, vrry, tiny! See how tiny I am? Vrrry smol and tiny. Yep, I am smol. Oh, and yeh, he sick."
Also he needs a doctor why take a pic of him he is obviously not feeling great
She’s awful! Absolutely awful! Who does that?! No sane mom would make her child uncomfortable enough to bawl his eyes out then take a picture of it.
Checked out for what why half post shit i don't get it either tells us a reason or don't post cryptic shit also why is an nr preschooler in a baby sling thing I've never seen a two yr old plus in a swing seat back pack I've seen dads or mums or both carry them atop there shoulders holding their hands I've seen them walking yes a bit slow but besides an adult holding a pram or parents hand but never this but again been a long time since I've been round small kids maybe things are done very differently now
He’s probably 300 degrees and why are his arms trapped inside…
Always important to stop for a photo when taking a sick child to the doctor.
Well, if you don't take a selfie while eye-fucking yourself on the way to the pediatrician, was the child actually sick????
Kiddo doesn't want mirror-picture time and is probably not comfortable in the baby sling. Get that child some medicine and put him to bed. Wow
The kid is sick, but she stops to take a selfie and goes out after. She is a sociopath!
Yes 💯
There are ergonomic baby carriers suited for toddlers and pre schoolers, so too carry two year olds are thing. There are so much better brands then “baby björn” that isn’t so heavy to carry in.
Big Eddy on the back, for real.
He doesn’t feel well why the fuck are you stopping to take a picture with a child who just wants to be comforted
Poor Edu. He's miserable and she's eye-effing the camera
Why post a photo of your kiddo very obviously in distress?! This is gross.
She LOOOOVES milking the child distress content. I wish they were hashtagged as such bc there’s a lot of it.
She’s full of shit. He’s not ‘thinking’ anything. He’s not missing his ‘twin’ and this supposed ‘inseparable-ness-is the result of their mother refusing to see each of her children as separate human beings. This kid and the one she bought to go with him have been part of a weird pathology-a fantastical universe their mother has concocted in her mind.
Lol “this kid and the one she bought to go with him” is perfect.
It’s so weird how she tries to use the fact that he’s miserable at being in that thing or maybe sick and needing attention, as fodder for how ‘inseparable’ the siblings are. I expect it at this point, but still.
Exactly my thought! Maybe he’s miserable because he feels sick and his mami is taking a selfie.
Read: He is almost as big as me and I'm carrying him. Super Mami.
Hillary: the photos you take of your kids are TRIGGERING. Stop. Please, just stop.
So she has possibly 3 sick kids and she's at a fundraiser tonight!?
WTF?! No. It is not. (It’s not common for any mom to shove a child of this size into what is an infant/too small baby wearing device. Poor kid is smushed.)
This is so sad. Poor exploited baby.
Why is everything NYC style but for her concern re: Spanish style? NYErs are hearty & act as such not like these pampered folks.
This is also a the woman who swore he was blessing his holy water in the high chair when really he was flipping the fuck out because he was in super restraints eating yogurt melts in a spill free cup. For Christ’s sake.
[удалено]
I mean it would make sense why, what with all the forced boob smashing for photo time
My daughter is 4 and I front carry her every now and then, especially living in Chicago. So much easier than dragging the stupid stroller everywhere when going somewhere crowded. There are definitely carriers made for older toddlers and preschoolers.
Definitely but this sure doesn’t look like one of them. It doesn’t even look like she tried to adjust it to make it fit him better
They are so inseparable because they rarely leave the house you dumb fucking twat.
You sit him in a friggin umbrella stroller lady. It’s not that complicated.
He's so sick, it's NYC, it's raining, so you just have him there in the open while you "bolt" to the doctor. I'm more than positive they have nice cars and people to drive them.
Exactly!
I have a hip (side) carrier for my 2.5 year old. He’s heavy and I still use it when I’m going to be carrying him for awhile like across a big parking lot or something … but I’ve used it with him since he was small so he doesn’t freak out or get scared about it. It holds him on my hip just like I do when I pick him up anyways . Poor Eddie!!
She’s a momster! She doesn’t even care that he’s upset and is not comfortable. It’s all about the picture and feeding her ego.
Jeebus. This.
Mum of three and it’s a massive NO from me. My youngest was a big boy and I think I did well to still carry him in the pack when he got to 10 months! She’s so fucking weird! Big Ed looks so upset. WHY upset him like this?
She has to put him in a front pack otherwise she wouldn’t be able to hold the phone
Isn’t this the same kid who’s always strapped into a high chair?! Can’t he walk?
Y’all this is possibly my favorite comment thread on this sub ever; tysm.
I mean he smokes cigars, has a favorite whisky, and frequents gentlemen's clubs, but the whole one foot in front of the other thing can be a challenge to all of us sometimes 😔
His poor little red face! This is awful! I would NEVER do this to my child!
Malibu is elated that both boolies are far away.
They probably stuck her in the staircase cage where she's plotting her revenge, Wednesday Addams-style
Imagine having 7 kids and be able to run an errand with only one of them. In a normal family dynamic, it would be the newborn in the carrier.
I have a big toddler so I’d definitely have to get a toddler carrier to be able to do that and she is not about that life, she barely tolerated it as a 1yo.
No. Mom of 4. Nope.
Same… nope… but wouldn’t you just call an Uber…wait until they are there and then go down in their elevator…take another Xanax Hilary
My kid still loves the backpack at nearly 4. But it’s a HBC toddler carrier designed for bigger kid. And it’s her choice to ride in it. This kid looks miserable and I HATE when parents take pics of crying kids.
& she takes a pic of a totally bawling, distraught kid???????? Again wtf? & how is this any “moment” worth capturing? Most tone deaf moron mon ever!
Yeah the baby carrying isn’t weird- whatever works- but I feel so horrible looking at this pic if such a upset little boy
Ahh so Alec stayed home to take care of the other 6? LOL
Why tf is she putting him in a “front pack” at his age & size? Just carry him, dummy! U know it’s just in your bldg & into an office w ur drivers and car seats in between. What a moron! Like u need a “carrier” down an elevator????!!!!!!! Carry m-walk combo works w a kid this big. Carriers are for babies!!!!!!!!!!
he is so sick/upset/distressed that it doesn’t even look like him, and all Hillary can do is take her phone out to take pictures. DISGUSTING
Dumb bitch.
This kid has such extreme behavior problems, that they constantly (and lazily) keep him in his high chair or completely constrained.
I think you might be onto something, @queen....
It’s not odd to do this, in general. Though I don’t think they do this often enough for the kid to be comfortable. I would back carry the kid in carrier with more structure.
Back carrier would work better, for sure.
I don’t know one mother who would stop to take photos of her very sick, crying child.
I would never post a pic of my kid on social having a meltdown. It’s online forever! Do you think he wants it there when he sees it as a teen? Get over yourself, you stupid woman.
No, my kids NEVER liked being in the carrier after they were a year old. I know every kid is different, but I would have never attempted this.
Mine didn't either
🤡her parents must be proud
She wants to look like super mami. She is actually súper imbécil.
Are they even verbal? I’ve never heard them say actual words in videos. I’m sure Edu was like “mother, may we perhaps invite my sister to join us on this fine excursion?”.
Omg Big Eddie's formal "speech!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sorry, no, NYC moms don’t do this. It’s either you walk or you get pushed in a stroller if you’re 2. Also “they’re inseparable”….sure. Glad ML got a break from getting beat down by her brother who is NOT her twin.
Exactly. I use a baby carrier a lot but that's because I'm a chair user and it's the best option for our family. Baby is always in the carrier and will be until he's 18mnth maybe 2 as he's small The two and half yr old rides on my lap but is encouraged to walk and uses child safety reigns when with me. A push chair/buggy when with his parents or grandparents. (My nephew's but I have them a few sessions a week and any days they can't be in nursery at their hooked time) the only carriers I've seen used for toddlers this age are for hiking
Yeah, babywearing moms can keep their kids in slings until age 4-ish, I think?
There's better carriers for an older toddler. He should be on a side bump or proper back carrier now for his own comfort and health and the parents spinal health
This woman is psychotic, delusional and a compulsive liar. That child obviously doesn’t like being in that thing and I highly doubt he began to like it. She seems to enjoy keeping him specifically contained / restrained and distressed. And I don’t believe Edu and ML are inseparable. Just more lies from this lunatic fraud.
Look how cute I look. My baby is so sick. POS
If all 3 of her youngest are under the weather, why is she only taking ONE to the doctor's?
Imagine taking a photo when your kid is that upset smh
As soon as my then-baby could control her neck and head well, she got turned around so that she could look outward, or sometimes put in a hip carrier.
Put him in the back 🤦🏽♀️
i HATE this photo bc poor baby edu looks so sad but it’s actually totally normal to babywear an older child! most slings and carriers are safe for up to 40lbs (including the specific brand/style of the one she’s wearing). it’s kind of like extended breastfeeding - some moms/toddlers love it and do it, some moms/toddlers hate it and don’t. either is okay!!! it is also great for neurodivergent and anxious children ☺️
Calling Bullshit once again Still not Spanish Always Guest Baldwin
I’m really old (66) and when my kids were Edu’s age they were in a stroller or in a back carrying device . She is coo-coo
Serious question! Is this font in all caps, or does she actually post these things in ALL CAPS ALL THE TIME?
She's doing it lately because ILARIA'S name looks like LLARIA (Ilaria) if it's in lower case. So she will forevermore have to write every single thing in caps, especially Ilaria's name.
My 2 year old walks 🤷🏻♀️and i too live in a big city
Yeah, NYer here. Most moms in NYC are not doing this shit.
She’s a terrible mother
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP THOSE KIDS...
Baby wearing is a huge thing and yes people do it with older toddlers, however I would say that they mainly use wraps and back carry them. Not at all what she is using now.
I never took my phone out when my toddlers were upset, let alone post their pictures for the world to see. And she uses the word "like" as if a teenager.
She's a vile creature and gives absolutely zero effs when it comes to children
Well she has the mind of a 13 year old
IMO this was a bodychecking thing for her and that’s it. Poor Edu
It really is. And she photoshopped off a lot from the back of her legs. Look at where her knees are vs her head and spine.
I don't know what enjoyment she gets from displaying her child in distress and PROUD OF IT on SM and what kind of people out there enjoying seeing a crying/distressed toddler.
What a horror of a "mother dearest ". She is a freak. Omg that poor child. 🤬
I’ve honestly never seen anything so pathetic in my life as her posts. Why does she continue to humiliate her children posting pics of them in distress? This will embarrass them someday. I hate her.
No, but if you were to do something attention seeking like this, you would face them out. Inward facing is only for infants with no head control. Also…I would never take a picture, and if I felt the need to, I would never be the asshole to post my kid in distress like this.
That toddler is puce from screaming. I’ll never not be uncomfortable at seeing mothers take photos of their crying children. It just seems so heartless, especially when she’s there with her stony Botox face and devoid of any emotion other than pure smugness.
Baby wearing is a thing until kids are even older than 2. However this carrier doesn’t really look like the kind that fits properly.
Inseparable? More like anxiety
I don't think it's that odd to do. I did wear my son until he was 18m and I only stopped then because I was 4-5 months pregnant. And I am a similar size to Hillz, and my son was huge. But at that point I wore him outward facing. And he was not screaming and visibly unhappy like Ed. In fact, the main reason I continued to wear him into toddlerhood is because he loved it. I wouldn't force that on a child. Clearly Ed is not used to her.
It’s like he’s being taken away with a stranger, he hates it
I also did this through at least 18 months. It is weird that the kid is facing the wrong way.
Oh Jesus NO. My grandbaby is 2 days younger than Big Ed, and she’s 37lbs. I honestly just sit down to lift her anymore because my shoulder and tennis elbow give me the finger. Plus she’s about 37” tall (I call her The Square One because of her dimensions), so just her legs would be a pain in the ass - not to mention it being uncomfortable for HER. Absolutely not.
why wouldn't you put him in a stroller which usually has a canopy and as most nyc moms have- a rain cover?
Why not take ML? Weren't they all sick?
Most people take them in a stroller but we all know she has TWO behemoth SUVs and a driver.
Yeah no. To each their own of course, but I did not strap my over 2 year old child to the front of my body like that if we went out for a walk anywhere.
LABLES ARE LAZY, BIG LARRY
What a whack job this tonto del culo is.
Distressed. The kids’ nerves must be raw.
The whole « NYC mom » thing is so dumb. We know she’s the kind that has a driver and someone to hold the umbrella. After the picture she put him down and the nanny took him to his appointment. She went back to her BFF Vicodin.
Generally you stick them on your back. I used to carry mine until they were about 3 on my back when we were doing long walks and their little legs couldn’t keep up.
Yeah I carried on my back from about a year to 3yrs. By then they're so heavy that you can't front carry anymore. This picture is insane. She's destroying her lumbar region for weird fetish clout.
There is no way this toddler cares that his fake twin isn’t with him. At this age their primary attachment is to their caregivers, not a baby who isn’t even at the same developmental stage as he is. Imposing this contrived bond on them will only make them co-dependent later on.
Exactly. He’s probably missing the nanny who takes care of him.
I have real twins, and they didn’t care about their twin being there until they were about 4 or 5 maybe (because they became very adventurous together).
What a lie. I’m a twin and loved any time I could be with mom by myself.
If I lived nearby I’d be picketing outside her apartment calling her a child abuser
I think he was more sad that he was physically restrained.
Of course because he isn't usually in that thing
I’m in pain seeing these horrible photos. WHO DOES THIS
I can’t imagine taking a dead-eyed selfie while there’s a child in distress strapped to my chest. Especially one who is way too big for a carrier. That’s like…sociopath shit.
Thank you it makes me really uncomfortable
it is so weird the way she documents and shares her kids stress
I carried my 4yo in a Tula this weekend at a very very crowded event. I had my almost 2yo in a carrier doing errands today bc I didn’t want her touching everything. I think it’s normal 🤷🏻♀️
Did you post photos of them looking distressed to the entire internet though?
We should find out the name of the carrier and reach out to the company. I would love to see her get publicly shamed for these theatrics.
Evil Puta.
Big Ed seems to be a tall kid, I can't imagine he's comfortable or safe in that thing
Poor kid. 😞 she is vile. A Mom would be comforting their child. Not taking photos!
Would this lunatic even know how to pass a mirror without taking a picture of herself?
I'm starting to think she makes content purposely ridiculous.
At her children's expense.
She's looking at herself.
Hilz: torturing tiny humans for nine years
She's pushing the "twins to their core" narrative rilly hard. He's crying because A) he's actually sick or B) he's uncomfortable in that front pack or C) He doesn't want to be literal face to face with this psycho woman!
D. All of the above
NYC Mom Style. Puh-lease, right after you got your Pic, lost Boy Edu got handed straight back to his Nanny! He doesn't cry because you didn't took his non-Twin Sister, he's crying because he doesn't want to be infantalized! First the high Chair and now this! Stop it!!!!!! Always posting your Toddlers crying, bawling, screaming...STOP!!!!!!!!!!
She walked to the doctor?
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My kid isn’t feeling well and he’s crying, let’s just take a selfie.
No they don't. Its super weird. They do a combination of walking+stroller. She sems to enjoy infantalizing them. At the very least he should be strapped to her back.
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Nooooo Hillary…he’s just getting the updraft from those stanky black leggings you’ve been wearing for over a month. Who can blame the poor little dude? 🤢
The poor child looks ill & miserable, but her selfie smile doesn’t reflect it at all.
He’s probably getting pinched & squeezed in places that hurt you stupid moron! That might be why he’s crying! The first thing you do as a mom, as a (human!!!) if your child is crying is to figure out why they’re crying, are they hurt, what is wrong? That face says more than I miss my not-twin.