There is always going to be evil people in the world, so I don’t wish it wasn’t necessary. As long as we know how to tackle it, the world will remain a good place
Sadly it was the bartender who drugged me at a bar and it was a nice place, not some seedy dive bar. Glad to see the owners/managers taking it to this level. Good on them!!!
Same. Thank god he gave me too much and I projectile vomited everything in my body within 15 minutes. Still had the spins and huge pupils for a day but at least I didn’t get raped.
I'm glad to see that more bars are taking a stand against sexual harassment. It's important that we create a safe and welcoming environment for everyone, and that includes not tolerating any type of sexual harassment. Thanks for speaking out!
I have a friend who was out with some friends, mixed company, and there was this one rando who kept hanging out around them. The table ordered wine and somehow the whole bottle got drugged and EVERYONE got sick. They quickly sussed out who it was but he was gone before anyone could do anything. I’ve always wondered what sits in these people’s minds when they do this. Do they do mental gymnastics to justify their rape or do they know they’re a straight up rapist and don’t care? I suspect somewhere in the middle.
Does no one else see how ridiculously unrealistic and ineffective this is? Call the damn police. Sitting with the lights on and no music for an hour does nothing.
LOL I know. I can't believe how many people think this actually happened. The story is so ridiculously contrived it could easily become a copypasta. Complete with "everybody cheered".
It sends an important message: THIS IS NOT RIGHT. Yes, the police were called, but the point is: the management of that bar decided that when a method to RAPE a woman/man is attempted at the bar, A MESSAGE NEEDS TO BE SENT. This shit ain't right, and if you attempt it, everyone's going to lose out.
I wish this wasn't a repost of something that didn't happen. The bar would not last more than one night. Look out for your friends yourselves. Because this doesn't actually happen.
Nah, stopping the band is good, as it signals to everyone that the bar takes this very seriously. "No, we're not going to act like everything is normal, because this shit ain't right."
I think when there is no music there is probably also not much dancing and stuff so you can get a better view of what is happening and if somebody is maybe behaving drugged ( didn’t know a better word).
“Now if I can bring your attention to the guy in the red shirt, thank him for your free drinks with a kick in the ass! He’s the one who drugged the drinks!”
That’s a bro move. Good for them. And I hope they……vigorously massaged that gentleman that drugged her drink. Massaged him vigorously with whatever may have been handy at the time. Rocks, barstools, etc.
Omg I saw that the other day! It made me so happy that a place actually takes responsibility and does something about it! That makes it sound like not many places do, but you'd be surprised.
This could have been handled in under 10 minutes with even the most basically trained security team. If they actually let this shit go on for an hour it means someone WASN'T doing their job.
Estimates published by the World Health Organization (WHO) on March 9, 2021 indicate that globally about 1 in 3 (30%) of women worldwide have been subjected to either physical and/or sexual intimate partner violence or non-partner sexual violence in their lifetime.
I absolutely love hearing this!! Thank you for sharing. Having a 22 year old daughter that goes to bars, I love they are watching out for them! Obviously not all are like this, but they need to follow exactly what this bar does!
I’m sure this has already been stated, but they actually have nail polish that detects if a drink has been drugged: the gal dips the tip of her finger in a glass, and if it’s drugged, the polish will turn a different color.
As much as this is awesome, I wanted to see the part where the guy was taken round back, beaten black and blue, then arrested. One step at a time, I suppose.
The cost for a round of free drinks is inconsequential compared to the cost of your bar getting a reputation as "that skeevy place where girls get drugged."
That is awesome, and I highly encourage more bars to do this. On the other hand what if it's a ploy by women to get free drinks? They go to bars around town that have that safe word set up, tell the bartender when their drinks are low, then BAM free refill.
These little weird fictional tales of morality are interesting. Not because of the content but because of the weird people writing them. Reminiscent of the fundamental Christian comic strips.
Don’t you think this story is too good to be true. Some random woman claimed a guy dropped some pill in the glass jar and suddenly every girl got their drinks replaced. With this strategy any rival bars might send in random girls every night claiming the same and get the drinks replaced. How many losses till the bar closes. Sweet story but not true.
So ruin a bands performance over someone telling you something they saw??? Lol I'd be pissed off if I was performing and someone decided to ruin my art.
This is a good initiative but I wonder if there was some discreet way of doing this, what if the guy was just putting ice for his gf's drink or something? People here just jumped to the conclusion that guy must be a rapist, not like guys are good for anything else right?
Is there a word for when you're grateful for something you wish wasn't necessary?
There’s probably a German word for it.
Regratefulness.
Yes it’s called Insurance.
There is always going to be evil people in the world, so I don’t wish it wasn’t necessary. As long as we know how to tackle it, the world will remain a good place
Same!!
Thanks for being.
"Don't know what the guy did..."
Unfortunately, he probably escaped.
Sadly it was the bartender who drugged me at a bar and it was a nice place, not some seedy dive bar. Glad to see the owners/managers taking it to this level. Good on them!!!
Same. Thank god he gave me too much and I projectile vomited everything in my body within 15 minutes. Still had the spins and huge pupils for a day but at least I didn’t get raped.
I am so, so sorry you experienced that. Stay safe. We won't let the [email protected] win.
Jesus I’m so sorry! I hope you’re ok & have emotional support! (I’ve been drugged at least 3x, only know by who 1ce.)
That’s really fucking awful to hear, I’m so sorry to hear that.
Yep. Had a friend who was date raped by a bar owner in the apartment upstairs.
There's a bar here in Denver that I refuse to ever frequent again. I wish I could remember the name right now...
I wish I could award this post with all the awards. Thank you for making me feel a little more safe in the world. Bless that bar.
Wish granted buddy :)
I wish I could afford to award this post the way I did the last time it was posted and on the front page like four weeks ago.
I'm glad to see that more bars are taking a stand against sexual harassment. It's important that we create a safe and welcoming environment for everyone, and that includes not tolerating any type of sexual harassment. Thanks for speaking out!
the word you're looking for is spelled R-A-P-E.
I’d specifically travel to that bar
Man, if every bar did this could you imagine how many people would stop trying to drug drinks? This is amazing. I’d be a patron of this bar 100%.
Where is the bar? They deserve success!!!
Yep, every time this gets reposted I wish the actual name of the bar was mentioned
Yes. Any bar that does this will get my business. I frequented one for years, even though they almost kicked my ass over it.
I hope they saved the tainted drink, called the police and detained the perpetrator until the police got there.
This post is an example of what should happen, but probably didn't.
I have a friend who was out with some friends, mixed company, and there was this one rando who kept hanging out around them. The table ordered wine and somehow the whole bottle got drugged and EVERYONE got sick. They quickly sussed out who it was but he was gone before anyone could do anything. I’ve always wondered what sits in these people’s minds when they do this. Do they do mental gymnastics to justify their rape or do they know they’re a straight up rapist and don’t care? I suspect somewhere in the middle.
If I knew which bar this was — they would have my business FOR LIFE.
Does no one else see how ridiculously unrealistic and ineffective this is? Call the damn police. Sitting with the lights on and no music for an hour does nothing.
LOL I know. I can't believe how many people think this actually happened. The story is so ridiculously contrived it could easily become a copypasta. Complete with "everybody cheered".
It sends an important message: THIS IS NOT RIGHT. Yes, the police were called, but the point is: the management of that bar decided that when a method to RAPE a woman/man is attempted at the bar, A MESSAGE NEEDS TO BE SENT. This shit ain't right, and if you attempt it, everyone's going to lose out.
Also, everyone else at the bar would leave to another bar with better atmosphere.
I wish more bars did this honestly
This makes me.. too late. I’m happy crying 😭
Wow that is truly amazing! Big applause for the manager and everyone involved
Much as I want to believe this happened, I'm skeptical that it's another
I hope not
Doesn’t mention if the police where notified since a female customer identified the man who did it but hey, the whole place clapped for an hour.
I wish this wasn't a repost of something that didn't happen. The bar would not last more than one night. Look out for your friends yourselves. Because this doesn't actually happen.
Glad there's a bar that does this.
Probably so they could keep a eye out for anyone trying to sneak a girl out after the announcement would be my guess.
Nah, stopping the band is good, as it signals to everyone that the bar takes this very seriously. "No, we're not going to act like everything is normal, because this shit ain't right."
I think when there is no music there is probably also not much dancing and stuff so you can get a better view of what is happening and if somebody is maybe behaving drugged ( didn’t know a better word).
I thought it was implied that that’s what happened
I read that fast and thought the code word was BAM!
“Now if I can bring your attention to the guy in the red shirt, thank him for your free drinks with a kick in the ass! He’s the one who drugged the drinks!”
I hope they also got the guy because otherwise he's going to try it in another bar the next day.
This is what all bars should do when this situation happens. 👏
Guy was already bleeding in the alley, that is why they did not see him.
Wow.
That’s pretty effin cool, but awful that it happens.
I would totally give the This award but I am 25 coin shorts. So I will just say it here. This.
That is awesome 👏🏽
That’s a classy strategy by the management and staff. Kudos. I feel like there’s not enough of this anymore.
That’s a bro move. Good for them. And I hope they……vigorously massaged that gentleman that drugged her drink. Massaged him vigorously with whatever may have been handy at the time. Rocks, barstools, etc.
Have seen this before - but some posts deserve an upvote no matter how many times they are posted
Unfortunately people get drugged a lot. I have a good friend who he got drugged once by a girl. Why do people do shit like that
Yeah no one really talks about women drugging men which is pretty normal especially in tourist areas
We need more of this!
Gives one hope in these dark times.
This makes me happy
That’s awesome. Men have shit put into their drinks too though. Let’s replace their drinks as well.
This seems made up why would they replace every drink when they know the one drink thay got drugged.
Omg I saw that the other day! It made me so happy that a place actually takes responsibility and does something about it! That makes it sound like not many places do, but you'd be surprised.
This could have been handled in under 10 minutes with even the most basically trained security team. If they actually let this shit go on for an hour it means someone WASN'T doing their job.
Almost no chance that actually happened unfortunately.
Awesome management
Being a female is pretty scary, how common is this? Fucking sickening.
Estimates published by the World Health Organization (WHO) on March 9, 2021 indicate that globally about 1 in 3 (30%) of women worldwide have been subjected to either physical and/or sexual intimate partner violence or non-partner sexual violence in their lifetime.
As great as this story is this has been reposted more times than there are fast n furious movies. So a fuck load
I'm not surprised. It reads like a copypasta.
I wish all bar's were like that! Great going! If I had any awards to give, I would give them all to your bar!
The couple that likes to role play with consensual non-consent that was there in the crowd: 👁👄👁
Likely trauma somewhere in there....
Sure
It was you wasn’t it ? Just kidding mate that was awesome from the bar 🤟🤟
Why weren’t the guys drinks replaced? You could’ve mistaken What he had seen and the drink was actually going to a guy
It’d be really funny if that guy had dropped a wedding ring in the drink because he was gonna propose
This is awesome, I hope nobody exploits it
Lol, of course it will get exploited 😂
I absolutely love hearing this!! Thank you for sharing. Having a 22 year old daughter that goes to bars, I love they are watching out for them! Obviously not all are like this, but they need to follow exactly what this bar does!
Wrong sub??
I’m sure this has already been stated, but they actually have nail polish that detects if a drink has been drugged: the gal dips the tip of her finger in a glass, and if it’s drugged, the polish will turn a different color.
No such nail polish exists/is available.
This is a really old, recycled post.
I will like to know more about it because depending on the size of the bar this can be not be able to maintain.
Amazing!
I didn't see which sub this was at first and thought this was going to end with them thinking it was you.
i need to know this bar so i can go there once i turn 21
As much as this is awesome, I wanted to see the part where the guy was taken round back, beaten black and blue, then arrested. One step at a time, I suppose.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but this didn't happen.
This sounds like a system that can be easy exploited for free drinks
The cost for a round of free drinks is inconsequential compared to the cost of your bar getting a reputation as "that skeevy place where girls get drugged."
That is awesome, and I highly encourage more bars to do this. On the other hand what if it's a ploy by women to get free drinks? They go to bars around town that have that safe word set up, tell the bartender when their drinks are low, then BAM free refill.
This could be easily abused lol.
I'm just wondering, could someone misuse this for free drinks?
Lol you got downvoted but this is very legit
People will abuse this to get free drinks
Who knows how many drinks that guy might have randomly drugged at the bar. Either replace just her drink or replace everyone’s drink.
These little weird fictional tales of morality are interesting. Not because of the content but because of the weird people writing them. Reminiscent of the fundamental Christian comic strips.
This is a nice story and all but...probably not true unless it’s an extremely small bar.
Thats fucking awesome
Wish I could give karma and kudos infinite times to that post. More helping humanity 💜💜🎉🎉
Don’t you think this story is too good to be true. Some random woman claimed a guy dropped some pill in the glass jar and suddenly every girl got their drinks replaced. With this strategy any rival bars might send in random girls every night claiming the same and get the drinks replaced. How many losses till the bar closes. Sweet story but not true.
This is the way all bars should be!
So ruin a bands performance over someone telling you something they saw??? Lol I'd be pissed off if I was performing and someone decided to ruin my art.
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That's sick.
Women are drugged at bars to be RAPED by men. It's not a joke, and it's not a method to get free drinks.
Sad day for me. No sex, and also no new kidneys 😤
Also a way to get a shitty band to stop.
idk whaT THAT REDDIT POST SAYS FUCK OYU
Was I the only one expecting a movie style ring in the drink proposal?
Drink it anyways hope you're the lucky one
Poot twist: it was you.
Ez way to get refills this seems
The guy who slipped something in the drink definitely ran when he heard the announcement.
This is a good initiative but I wonder if there was some discreet way of doing this, what if the guy was just putting ice for his gf's drink or something? People here just jumped to the conclusion that guy must be a rapist, not like guys are good for anything else right?