Tbf I honestly think women like these have such flawed perception of height due to men lying about their height. I wouldn't be surprised if she thought 5'5 was 6'0. For 6'5 she's probably thinking someone more 5'9ish
I think she was just trolling. No way 6'5" is really her minimum height requirement when she's only 4'11"... unless she has a serious kink for giving BJ's on her tiptoes.
I’m 4’11” and dated a guy who is 6’5”. I really cared for him but the height difference was awkward, especially since I hate wearing heels. Always having to look up was annoying too.
I'm 5'2" and briefly dated a guy who was 6'10". It was awkward, kissing was stupid difficult and sleeping beside him in bed was kinda annoying. My 5'9" husband is perfect height for me now. Do they think it's a bigger dick or something? Cause in my experience that's not the case lol.
She’s probably waiting for an nba player to scoop her up, if that doesn’t work there are plenty of giraffes in Africa, but they don’t date girls under 5’1 so awks for her..
I'm 6'4 and I dated a 4'11". You can't kiss while having sex without acrobatics. She's too far down there. It's awkward. Fun to put on shoulders, yeah, but intimacy is hard.
There was this girl that went to my high school and her only goal going to college was to marry a future NFL OR NBA player. She had no career aspirations or anything, it was pretty sad, because I think her dad left when she was a kid and her mom was not a good example to say the least. We live at a weird place in time.
Considering only ~15% of men (at least in the USA) are 6' or taller, these women really are setting their standards absurdly high. People 6'3 or above make up less than 4%.
That’s probably the funniest thing about this whole height dilemma. I don’t think any of them even give thought to the idea that they’ve limited themselves to 0.1% of the potential dating pool and then you see them bitching about still being single or “deleted this app, now I’m back” stuff lol.
For non-americans here, that's 2 meters. Yeah. Apparently, less than 1.5% of humanity fits that bill. Friendly reminder that expecting too much will get you nothing !
That's what I was thinking, 6'5" is huge, I think I only know 1 person over that personally. I know a couple of 6'4" people but I guess they don't make the cut either lol
I don't know how feet works so I googled how much 6"5 is in meters. It's 1.96!!!? That's het minimum?? If she doesn't live in the Netherlands, where is she going to find someone? Even here that's quite above average and Dutchies are the tallest people on this planet... Imagine just not dating most people on this planet without even knowing what they're like just because they're not twice your height.... And 4"1 is 1.25 m??? That's literally a child's size lol
You joke but I’ve legit thought about this before. I don’t like kids and at least currently don’t plan on any, and I’ve never chosen a dude for their height, but I’m 4’8” and have thought about the “what if”s for sure.
I'm 5'3 and as someone who's from a family where most of my cousins are 6'6 and taller... it's not as fun as she imagines it is. You can't properly hug someone who has to fold in half to get down to your level.
True. I'm 195cm, which is around 6'5" and my ex was 158cm (5'2") and everything is impractical. Not the least of which is choosing the height of furniture. In the mirror she could only see her forehead, I could only see my chin.
I just did the measurements on my wall. If she is 4'11" and wants 6'5" minimum. It's very likely (using only evidence backed by nothing) that she has a weird daddy dominance fetish. I hate her.
The types that only want tall people are never beyond 4ft tall lol. I think a height requirement is one of the more garbage physical preferences to have since it's something people have zero control over. Like I get not wanting to date someone who's shorter then you but you're 4ft tall and want an NBA basketball player lol. To put things into perspective Dwayne the rock Johnson is a big dude and he's 6ft 4.... lol
Also, that height difference SUCKS. I'm like 6'3 and I tried dating a woman who was around 4'10 briefly. It was so awkward to bend down and kiss her, hold her hands, grind at the club, etc. I'm sure sex could be fun maybe but eh
5'11" lady as well. Never dated a man taller than me. Husband is shorter than me. I just never thought about height as something to care about, been so surprised to learn it's such a big deal. I've had guys give me grief for being too tall, so I guess it's a similar experience in reverse.
I was curious, and was wondering how much of the male population was over 6 feet and 5 inches tall. Less than 1%. I'm pretty sure she was joking. OP posted a pic of the girl and asked "potential gym gf?". Like, at least have a better conversation starter. No wonder she replied like that. Talk to her like a human if you want a decent reply back.
I've been there. Rejected by a 5'2" lawn gnome with boobs because I, at 5'9", was also too short for her. I dont get the obsession with tiny women saying gigantic guys. Maybe they enjoy riding around in their shirt pockets like baby kangaroos?
I'm 6'6" and I don't know what the motivator is for that kind of height difference. I'm assuming it's a fetish, so I get it, but it's always fraught territory when you're fetishizing something like height, breasts, waist, hair, etc. because it can feel dehumanizing to the subject of that fixation.
I was 6’3” in high school when I went to a dance with a girl who was 4’11”. It was the weirdest feeling to dance with someone that short. My back was sore the next day from the awkward way I had to stand. I can’t imagine a full ass relationship with someone almost a foot and a half shorter than me.
lol I'm 4'9" I don't get the whole 6'0" or taller thing for short women. I mean, the likelihood of a guy being taller than you is very high, who cares is they are 5'6" or 6', they still can reach shelves that you can't.
I'm really of the opinion you should try dating people within a couple inches of you. Less backache and less bs that way. And ignore most girls under 5'5 if you're a tall dude cause that is where most of the backache and bs is. :p
It's her right to look for whatever preference she has in a partner even if it's dumb. If I want I can olbly date people who's name starts with A and no one has the right to judge me on that. Or in her case guys who are much taller than her
As a 6’ tall female, I’ve dated both taller and shorter men and women. In my experience, the taller men know they are “worth more” (that’s awful even to type in quotes) to the average woman, due to their height, and often act like it makes them superior or that I should be grateful they are on a date with me. I prefer shorter or same height men as they don’t bring that baggage to the table and you can get to know them, as a person, easier.
It is funny because as a 5'8 guy, I tend to prefer tall women because of something similiar. They are usually far less impacted by height and are more ok with their feminity than girls under 5'5 who needs someone really bigger to compensate their insecurities.
I keep getting gals commenting on how tall I am (6’0”) before they comment on my personality or other attributes. WTF?!?! 6’0” is average to me. Its really strange to me that height is so important
Who the fuck cares. Nothing's wrong with liking taller people. Its called having standards. This sub need sto stop ebing babies and just realize no one is obligated to like you
Love how women will judge men based on something no one can control🤣🤦♂️🖕 yet fat women get asshurt because men won't date them because of their weight
what i've learnt about women who do this is that they don't care about the man's height really, they only want to feel small and cute by comparison. that's why they want that height.
it's almost impossible to measure a person's height past "they're taller/shorter than me" from sight. My ex once refused to believe I was over 6', nevermind 6'2", whilst she was 5'7"ish. I got out a tape measure as I was bored and proved it.
My friend (6’5” 320 lb) introduced me to his new Gf. She was 4’11 maybe 100 lb, and when they walked up to me i actually started laughing. Felt like a cartoon
Maybe she likes to give head standing up or is into being a little dont knock her kinks cuz you don’t fit the mold next one there’s a billion mother fuckas and if it’s only coz she shallow bullet dogged just saying.
They're called spinners. She can probably shove her entire arm up to the shoulder in her vagina. She NEEDS a 6'7 guy for that chance at a huge dick, otherwise she would feel NOTHING.
Does she just wanna reach till the man's crotch or what?
Maybe just wants to be able to give a bj while standing
She just wanna talk directly to the dick
No down the road, her dream is to carry his ENORMOUS baby in her tiny body so she gets all messed up.
She wanted to be a living fleshlight kink.
She wants the mans crotch to be monkey bars.
She probably equates a man's height to the size of his...
Tbf I honestly think women like these have such flawed perception of height due to men lying about their height. I wouldn't be surprised if she thought 5'5 was 6'0. For 6'5 she's probably thinking someone more 5'9ish
Why did she even bother responding, your profile on hinge says your height 😭
Free attention probably or to try and get a reaction so she can repost it on her story
I think she was just trolling. No way 6'5" is really her minimum height requirement when she's only 4'11"... unless she has a serious kink for giving BJ's on her tiptoes.
Could be a shit test.
6'5 and 4'11…. its like walking with your little daughter..
It would be literally like Bo Burnham dating Danny Devito
Have you seen the actor who played the mountain in game of thrones and his wife? It’s hard for the brain to process.
Daddy issues intensified.
My dad’s 6’3 and my mom’s 4’11… can confirm they look ridiculous together
My thoughts exactly. I'm 6'8 and I could never.
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I'm 6'2 and have an ex who was 4'9. Yes, we looked ridiculous together. Didnt help when she got braces...
She can stare at his belly button when when they have sex.
I’m 4’11” and dated a guy who is 6’5”. I really cared for him but the height difference was awkward, especially since I hate wearing heels. Always having to look up was annoying too.
i’m 6’5” and the shortest i date is 5’6”. it becomes a logistical problem any shorter than that
I’m 6’5” and would never date a girl that short. It’s just awkward and impractical
Is this even real? I cannot believe how fixated some women are on a guys height.
I firmly believe its a fetish for her and not 'preference'. Like If someone only dated someone that weighed 80lbs or 500lbs.
It’s like a hamster eating a banana
Yup, thus why this girl has an unhealthy fetish that people will cover up under the disguise of "preference".
🤔 funny since a lot of these types have daddy issues too.
Like 10 in arabic.. ١٠
There is a lot of porn like this. So I see what she is going for.
She probably has daddy issues.
I think this is their fantasy, 4.11 girl and 6.0+ guy will hold hands awkwardly, weirdly and stupidly and she keep calling guy Daddy! Smh…
That's the point, gotta compensate for the dad that left her.
That's what she wants a daddy🌚
I'm 5'2" and briefly dated a guy who was 6'10". It was awkward, kissing was stupid difficult and sleeping beside him in bed was kinda annoying. My 5'9" husband is perfect height for me now. Do they think it's a bigger dick or something? Cause in my experience that's not the case lol.
She's trying to win the "die in childbirth" challenge
She’s probably waiting for an nba player to scoop her up, if that doesn’t work there are plenty of giraffes in Africa, but they don’t date girls under 5’1 so awks for her..
But If the roles were switched I’d be cancelled and be a sexist
I'm 6'4 and I dated a 4'11". You can't kiss while having sex without acrobatics. She's too far down there. It's awkward. Fun to put on shoulders, yeah, but intimacy is hard.
Why would an NBA player want her hobbit genes? lmao
There was this girl that went to my high school and her only goal going to college was to marry a future NFL OR NBA player. She had no career aspirations or anything, it was pretty sad, because I think her dad left when she was a kid and her mom was not a good example to say the least. We live at a weird place in time.
These are the kind of people that remain single and think "I'm a prize catch, it's everyone else who sucks".
This is a majority of women I find on dating apps in Alberta
I'm a 5 star man
Considering only ~15% of men (at least in the USA) are 6' or taller, these women really are setting their standards absurdly high. People 6'3 or above make up less than 4%.
Give it a few years. She'll be on femaledatingstrategy.
literally limiting herself to 1/1000 men before considering any other feature.
Not to mention someone that tall would probably not date her due to the ridiculous height difference.
More like 1/100000 6'5 is freakishly tall my dude
That’s probably the funniest thing about this whole height dilemma. I don’t think any of them even give thought to the idea that they’ve limited themselves to 0.1% of the potential dating pool and then you see them bitching about still being single or “deleted this app, now I’m back” stuff lol.
But she has access to 1000 mens...
Should’ve said “5’0” minimum sorry”
Lost chance damn it
Would have come off as pathetic after he already tried to pick her up.
Or DDD minimum
"You must be at least this tall to ride"
At this point I'm pretty sure the massive height difference is a fetish thing
100% it’s a weird daddy issue. She wants to be somebody’s little girl
It absolutely can be. Both directions too.
Maybe she's into giant porn.
That painted a really weird picture in my head 😂
dont think she really is sorry
You think 😂
I wonder if she is joking bc she’s so short? Idk
For non-americans here, that's 2 meters. Yeah. Apparently, less than 1.5% of humanity fits that bill. Friendly reminder that expecting too much will get you nothing !
That's what I was thinking, 6'5" is huge, I think I only know 1 person over that personally. I know a couple of 6'4" people but I guess they don't make the cut either lol
Yea, and she want 60cm difference in high.
While you're not wrong when rounding, it's 195.5 cm, almost two inches short of two metres.
1.5% of humans and most of them aren’t in this chicks area, so she is gonna be looking for a while.
I don't know how feet works so I googled how much 6"5 is in meters. It's 1.96!!!? That's het minimum?? If she doesn't live in the Netherlands, where is she going to find someone? Even here that's quite above average and Dutchies are the tallest people on this planet... Imagine just not dating most people on this planet without even knowing what they're like just because they're not twice your height.... And 4"1 is 1.25 m??? That's literally a child's size lol
She's 4"11 which would be equivalent to 149cm
I’m 5’10 and once dated a 4’10” girl. Felt like I was dating a kid.
Also large size differences can make it difficult for some procedures and maneuvers in the bedroom
I’m 5’1 and shorter than all my friends and I hate it! It feels like I never fully grew up.
Im 5'4 and always wanted to date a really taller woman. None of them seem interested in shorter guys though, even after we have a a nice conversation
You ever go to a concert with a short girl? They spend the whole time complaining they can’t see lol
Understandable. She’s just trying to have average sized kids. Meet in the middle you know?
Amusing if that backfires and they have 6' daughter and a 5'4" son. Also, tragic for the boy. Rip.
Both my parents are around 5’10” I’m around 5’”10 my brother is like 6’4”. Genes don’t average heights of both parents. They are funny like that.
You joke but I’ve legit thought about this before. I don’t like kids and at least currently don’t plan on any, and I’ve never chosen a dude for their height, but I’m 4’8” and have thought about the “what if”s for sure.
I know you are joking but goddamn do I hate how people don’t understand genetics.
It doesn’t work like that my dads 6’2 and my moms 5’0. I got stuck at 5’4
This is the most likely reason.
She means 6.5 inches penis? 😂
I was gonna throw in a penis joke saying my penis can make up for the extra 5 inches but she would probably run for the hills 💪💪
I'm 5'3 and as someone who's from a family where most of my cousins are 6'6 and taller... it's not as fun as she imagines it is. You can't properly hug someone who has to fold in half to get down to your level.
As a 5’8” guy who has a thing for tall girls, my life is cursed. None of them want me lol.
True. I'm 195cm, which is around 6'5" and my ex was 158cm (5'2") and everything is impractical. Not the least of which is choosing the height of furniture. In the mirror she could only see her forehead, I could only see my chin.
My dad is 5’5 and has two twin cousins that are 6’8 and 6’7. Genetics can be a cruel bitch.
Agreed. I’m 5’3 and my fiancé is 5’7; it feels very easy and more natural when you don’t have to extend or reach to meet the other person.
Probably don’t want to bruise her knees
I just did the measurements on my wall. If she is 4'11" and wants 6'5" minimum. It's very likely (using only evidence backed by nothing) that she has a weird daddy dominance fetish. I hate her.
Everything about this comment is art 🎨
Cries in 5'8 😂😭
Don’t, really.. if height is such a big deal to them, they seem superficial af.
Pre-meeting my husband, my favorite boyfriend was 5’8. I am also 5’8. People who judge based on this can get bent.
Don't! Men are beautiful at any height.
The types that only want tall people are never beyond 4ft tall lol. I think a height requirement is one of the more garbage physical preferences to have since it's something people have zero control over. Like I get not wanting to date someone who's shorter then you but you're 4ft tall and want an NBA basketball player lol. To put things into perspective Dwayne the rock Johnson is a big dude and he's 6ft 4.... lol
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I get it when you want that your bf is taller than you but as long as he is taller or the same height who tf cares
Also, that height difference SUCKS. I'm like 6'3 and I tried dating a woman who was around 4'10 briefly. It was so awkward to bend down and kiss her, hold her hands, grind at the club, etc. I'm sure sex could be fun maybe but eh
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Preferences are preferences.. They can be completely arbitrary.
Kind of suggests they are projecting their own insecurity about their height into requiring they account for it in excess.
It's really a form of projection if you think about it.
Im a lady who’s 5’11 am I meant to be dating guys a minimum of 7’5 then?
or are we meant to do the reverse and date short kings??
5'11" lady as well. Never dated a man taller than me. Husband is shorter than me. I just never thought about height as something to care about, been so surprised to learn it's such a big deal. I've had guys give me grief for being too tall, so I guess it's a similar experience in reverse.
Hey, you’re the girl with the famous post from last week! Can I have your autograph??
Sorry shortass, get on a torture rack if you wanna hang with the adults
The Global Occult Coalition would like to know your location
This must be BS or she just wanted to get rid of him. The pool of 6'5 guys must be bloody small.
Course it isn’t small they’re 6”5
Agreed.
I have a question in general.. in germany nobody cares about your height in online dating🤷♂️
That's not true pal. A lot of girls have height requirements. I am German 😁
Because it's a pretty safe excuse to end the conversation. She didn't like his initial message and gave a generic answer.
Your view of American Twitter is shaped by what is posted to Reddit.
German here too, because tall guys aren’t rare here.
I think she's just teasing you OP
I was curious, and was wondering how much of the male population was over 6 feet and 5 inches tall. Less than 1%. I'm pretty sure she was joking. OP posted a pic of the girl and asked "potential gym gf?". Like, at least have a better conversation starter. No wonder she replied like that. Talk to her like a human if you want a decent reply back.
i'm half a foot taller and 6'5 disgruntles me
Something like that haha
I've been there. Rejected by a 5'2" lawn gnome with boobs because I, at 5'9", was also too short for her. I dont get the obsession with tiny women saying gigantic guys. Maybe they enjoy riding around in their shirt pockets like baby kangaroos?
I'm 6'6" and I don't know what the motivator is for that kind of height difference. I'm assuming it's a fetish, so I get it, but it's always fraught territory when you're fetishizing something like height, breasts, waist, hair, etc. because it can feel dehumanizing to the subject of that fixation.
On the bright side, they’re weeding themselves out for you.
Lol the audacity of this little girl for wanting to date someone over 6’4”.
I am over 6'4 and I think this is what it feels like to be short. Getting rejected over something you have no influence over what so ever.... sucks.
Why do you live your life according to how other people might perceive you? Oh, it "looks" odd. Who cares, date who you want.
probably she was joking?
Haha I think it's actually just a really polite rejection? Or a bit of a pisstake.
It wouldn't work anyway.
I'm 6'2" and I have, uh, math problems with women under 5' 😂 I can't even imagine being with someone smaller. How do they expect that to work?
Why would a 6’5” gut want to date a girl who isn’t even 5’?
I was 6’3” in high school when I went to a dance with a girl who was 4’11”. It was the weirdest feeling to dance with someone that short. My back was sore the next day from the awkward way I had to stand. I can’t imagine a full ass relationship with someone almost a foot and a half shorter than me.
lol I'm 4'9" I don't get the whole 6'0" or taller thing for short women. I mean, the likelihood of a guy being taller than you is very high, who cares is they are 5'6" or 6', they still can reach shelves that you can't.
It has to just be a meme at this point
Yeah this is obviously fake.
6‘0“ now counts as „short“?! Are you kidding me?
She said you ugly lol
Tell me you have daddy issues without telling me you have daddy issues
I'm really of the opinion you should try dating people within a couple inches of you. Less backache and less bs that way. And ignore most girls under 5'5 if you're a tall dude cause that is where most of the backache and bs is. :p
Guys, hear me out, but I think she's joking
There’s no way it’s not a joke!
Wow “I don’t date short guys” lol
It's her right to look for whatever preference she has in a partner even if it's dumb. If I want I can olbly date people who's name starts with A and no one has the right to judge me on that. Or in her case guys who are much taller than her
how much is 4’11” into meters? I googled it and google says it’s 1,25? no way she’s that short
It's around 1.5 meters
4'11'' is 150 cm and 6'5'' is 195. So yeah, this is a bit absurd.
I have a theory they do this to find professional athletes.
Girls like death by snu snu to
I don't think height would of been her true reason
It's 'would have', never 'would of'.
Your point? I like brunettes
Now who the fuck actually cares, it's her life, let her be. Move on, brother, she's probably not worth your time.
As a 6’ tall female, I’ve dated both taller and shorter men and women. In my experience, the taller men know they are “worth more” (that’s awful even to type in quotes) to the average woman, due to their height, and often act like it makes them superior or that I should be grateful they are on a date with me. I prefer shorter or same height men as they don’t bring that baggage to the table and you can get to know them, as a person, easier.
It is funny because as a 5'8 guy, I tend to prefer tall women because of something similiar. They are usually far less impacted by height and are more ok with their feminity than girls under 5'5 who needs someone really bigger to compensate their insecurities.
Hate to break it to you bro, but the height's not the real reason
Friendly reminder, you are not entitled to every woman you’re interested in finding you attractive.
You could also just…not match? Why match with someone just to call them short.
how the fuck is this even a conversation? what the fucking fuck is wrong with you people. are you all 11 years old? I'm all cringed out fuck off
I keep getting gals commenting on how tall I am (6’0”) before they comment on my personality or other attributes. WTF?!?! 6’0” is average to me. Its really strange to me that height is so important
Apparently 6’0” is not average for this chick
6'0" is average? I'm 5'10" and most guys are around my height or slightly shorter
I always thought this was just a joke. Is this a real thing that keeps coming up?
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Shorty's shootin for like, 0.1% of the population there lol
She's not into you because everything else but your height. This is her saying: "Uh,no"
Strategic move. She wants to compensate probably :
Who the fuck cares. Nothing's wrong with liking taller people. Its called having standards. This sub need sto stop ebing babies and just realize no one is obligated to like you
6'5" minimum. That's like the top 0.01% of the world.
She probably wants to be carried like a kid everywhere she goes?
She wants a guy who will be nuts over her.
Love how women will judge men based on something no one can control🤣🤦♂️🖕 yet fat women get asshurt because men won't date them because of their weight
Bro, she just tryna improve her next gen chance 😅
I’m sorry, what 6’5 man would want a 4’11 girlfriend? When you’re that tall, your main focus should be on making a race of giant babies.
I think she was taking the piss off you OP
Wasn’t that into you in the first place, I bet if you said 6.5 she would of said 7. Minimum
what i've learnt about women who do this is that they don't care about the man's height really, they only want to feel small and cute by comparison. that's why they want that height.
Welp my 5'5" manlet ass is gonna cry in the corner...
bruhh whaaaaaaaaaaaat ?
it's almost impossible to measure a person's height past "they're taller/shorter than me" from sight. My ex once refused to believe I was over 6', nevermind 6'2", whilst she was 5'7"ish. I got out a tape measure as I was bored and proved it.
My friend (6’5” 320 lb) introduced me to his new Gf. She was 4’11 maybe 100 lb, and when they walked up to me i actually started laughing. Felt like a cartoon
Maybe she likes to give head standing up or is into being a little dont knock her kinks cuz you don’t fit the mold next one there’s a billion mother fuckas and if it’s only coz she shallow bullet dogged just saying.
They're called spinners. She can probably shove her entire arm up to the shoulder in her vagina. She NEEDS a 6'7 guy for that chance at a huge dick, otherwise she would feel NOTHING.
So she wants to match with NBA players?
in the general American population, 3.9% of adult men are 6'2" or taller
it's the ugly tax (basically just a 'polite' way to say she's not interested in him without saying she's not interested in him specifically)
Im 6'4. People tell me all the time how tall I am. Im really too short for her???
I would've said "Sorry I don't date kids with kankles"
4'11" black hair, never had her dad there
6 5 what the actual fuck?
She just wants to suck them off standing.